Comments on: The Devil Is In The Details https://bandbblog.com/2023/07/06/the-devil-is-in-the-details/ B and B Blog Tue, 11 Jul 2023 18:45:42 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: FreedomAtLast https://bandbblog.com/2023/07/06/the-devil-is-in-the-details/#comment-15549 Tue, 11 Jul 2023 18:45:42 +0000 https://bandbblog.com/?p=15229#comment-15549 I was also in a similar and very scary situation. Thank you for sharing what I know is painful to re-live but helpful to many who may be looking for a way out.

]]> By: Beverly https://bandbblog.com/2023/07/06/the-devil-is-in-the-details/#comment-15546 Tue, 11 Jul 2023 03:50:33 +0000 https://bandbblog.com/?p=15229#comment-15546 ❤❤❤]]> In reply to Jayme S Woodruff.

Jayme, I’m giving you a virtual hug!! I have so many people asking me to do a podcast. I’m starting to seriously think about it now. I want to be used for good and if I’ve went through what I have for that, then I’m ok with that lol! Ok…I’m going to start looking into it because I do much better if I just talk. I’m just now able to tell these stories with a twist of humor, so I’m sure it would be intriguing ha!! I even thought about another website dealing with this type of subject and spiritual warfare. Whatever I do, I know I will have a “must do” passion about it. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

]]> By: Jayme S Woodruff https://bandbblog.com/2023/07/06/the-devil-is-in-the-details/#comment-15543 Fri, 07 Jul 2023 22:03:24 +0000 https://bandbblog.com/?p=15229#comment-15543 In reply to Beverly.

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE do a Pod cast! Your writing is impeccable so I can only imagine what you could do with your own pod -cast. All the people you could help, men & women, (because women can be narcissistic also) & giving people the strength to stand up for themselves & show them how much better life can be when you choose yourself & the Lord over a toxic relationship that is inevitably going to destroy your spirit, & let’s not forget the little humans that are learning by example. I believe there is a reason for all the struggles & doubt & insecurities we are handed, as I’m sure you have realized during your own journey, to arise stronger & wiser & happier than we ever thought possible & to extend that knowledge, strength & self-worth onto anyone who is struggling. Your a beautiful person, inside & out, & to that “3rd person”, who has yet to be revealed, buy that person a drink & thank them for relieving you of that troubled soul. God Bless!

]]> By: Beverly https://bandbblog.com/2023/07/06/the-devil-is-in-the-details/#comment-15542 Fri, 07 Jul 2023 14:59:52 +0000 https://bandbblog.com/?p=15229#comment-15542 🥰🥰]]> In reply to Julie.

Thank you Julie🥰🥰🥰

]]> By: Julie https://bandbblog.com/2023/07/06/the-devil-is-in-the-details/#comment-15541 Fri, 07 Jul 2023 14:14:56 +0000 https://bandbblog.com/?p=15229#comment-15541 Beverly! You have a true gift. Your way of writing is perfect and beautiful. I am so sorry to hear of what you’ve gone through but I really feel you’re going to come out on top of the world with so many blessings headed your way. Don’t change – you’re a gem 🙂 Take care of you.

]]> By: Beverly https://bandbblog.com/2023/07/06/the-devil-is-in-the-details/#comment-15540 Fri, 07 Jul 2023 04:27:15 +0000 https://bandbblog.com/?p=15229#comment-15540 ]]> In reply to Jen.

Well said!! Mine was the same way, very covert, slick as a peeled onion. I thought I was the narc too until a therapist friend told me if I was asking…I wasn’t. They see nothing they do is wrong, they have no remorse for things they do or say, thus…it must be me/you who are the problem. And they never apologize!! It is a prison, and it will slowly destroy you if you continue to stay. Where I am now, compared to where I was last summer is nothing more than a miracle. I have tried from the beginning of this to ask, what am I learning, how can I be better than? I never looked at myself and thought what could I have done differently. When I tell how I found out who the 3rd person was, that’s a story you won’t want to miss! I will be praying for you 🤗

]]> By: Jen https://bandbblog.com/2023/07/06/the-devil-is-in-the-details/#comment-15539 Fri, 07 Jul 2023 04:08:31 +0000 https://bandbblog.com/?p=15229#comment-15539 I started my journey to divorce – and eventually bliss – just before you did, Beverly; there were times that made me wonder if I was the narcissist, but then the more that I talked to people, or read words like yours, I realize it was the narcissist in my life that tried to twist the narrative. He was a “passive” narcissist, so he was even harder to navigate than an “aggressive” narcissist, because they are more subtle in their subterfuge. All I can say is that the end is such a relief. I do still miss my inlaws; there is no remedy for collateral damage, but at least now my home is now again my sanctuary instead of my prison or misery. For anybody who is feeling that things are just not right, and while relationships are work – yours feels like more than it’s worth – please start realizing your self-worth and make the change – no matter how scary or daunting it seems. Happiness is closer than you think.

]]> By: Beverly https://bandbblog.com/2023/07/06/the-devil-is-in-the-details/#comment-15538 Fri, 07 Jul 2023 03:45:32 +0000 https://bandbblog.com/?p=15229#comment-15538 🥰]]> In reply to Joan.

Amen Joan!! Well said🙌🏼🥰

]]> By: Beverly https://bandbblog.com/2023/07/06/the-devil-is-in-the-details/#comment-15537 Fri, 07 Jul 2023 03:44:57 +0000 https://bandbblog.com/?p=15229#comment-15537 🥰]]> In reply to Kirstie Schotte.

Thank you!! Kudos to you! And hugs right back 🤗🥰

]]> By: Becky M https://bandbblog.com/2023/07/06/the-devil-is-in-the-details/#comment-15536 Fri, 07 Jul 2023 03:37:08 +0000 https://bandbblog.com/?p=15229#comment-15536 In reply to Jennifer.

Thank you for sharing.

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